Blog: Having Low Level BDSM in your life safely and in a low level way…
There is no need to go to extremes when engaging in BDSM the practice of playing around with you know.. Bondage or Submissiveness, dominance or sadomasochism. Its totally feasible to have very low level experiences which explore to begin with the area of BDSM or Subs and Doms. For example, perhaps it is not necessary to buy fully kitted out gear for a dominance, and sadomasochism torture chamber in your loft when really most people are having amazing BDSM experiences just by using props so to speak such as a ceiling duster or even common everyday trousers belt! Its really not something for many people other than a very funny silly little pass-time that they enjoy together mostly for fun and not getting too serious about!
Low level harmless fun for couples who are experimenting a little with their intimacy in a loving traditional environment! Completely safe with no danger and no unsavoury consequences and in a fully consensual way in which the experience is enriching and affirming of life bonds between loving couples!
Also training and maintaining healthy and fit lifestyles does mean that whilst enjoying the low level BDSM lifestyle and intimacy experience is enriched by feeling better, looking healthier and better, feeling younger and building up the stamina to last in what can be demanding lifestyle experiences and personal intimacy experiences by long term romance partners who take great care to act responsibly and are also very professional people! People can then feel safe even while engaging in sissy dating ! People are so keen to express their passion and care for each other and simply allowing what are natural impulses for many people to come to the fore in a pre-planned and completely safe and private space is enriching for everyone involved and in which life long healthy relationships flourish.
BDSM is in its Low level ways almost totally mainstream and recognises very normal human impulses, instincts and emotions and very often uses play acting to release pent up tensions, impulses and desires which can relax people, causing a calming sensation mentally and physically and actually releasing physical tension this makes people happier in their day to day lives, and more productive helpful citizens who are happier in their families in their workplace and social settings! Planning the experiences with a trusted long term life partner ensures total consent and ensures safety for everyone involved so that people can properly relax because they are not thinking about their safety. For those exploring BDSM with unknown strangers it really is vital to implement the full range of pre-meet up safety practices and strategies so that any meet up is almost ensured to be safe. this is possible by following the safety guidelines which are available online!
Once you have implemented the safety protocols for both online and physical meet ups with new contacts engaging in BDSM practices and even attending BDSM events or locations to meet up with connection can be done in a safe way that promotes mutual respect and the open and consentual agreemtn of everyone involved. In an environment where individuals are participating in even low level bondage, submissiveness, dominance or sadomasochism practices the potential for overstepping consent boundaries is increased as by its very nature several of the roles participants are assuming are actually inherently about the enjoyment of feeling pain or what others would see as psychological discomfort. Having signals during sessions such as tapping the ground or a stop word will allow everyone to practise in a much safer way! Please be careful and take the safety precautions please!
The most important thing is to research. Research and plan and prepare and that way everyone is a winner!
Please take care and very best wishes!
Rugby Rep states Curator!
